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April 18, 2021 Yesterday, Saturday April 17, 2021

April 18, 2021

Yesterday, Saturday April 17, 2021 was Husband Appreciation Day.

I am grateful for Bon Ehirim my husband.

I especially appreciate how he has treated me with love and respect in the forty years that he has known me and the thirty-five years that we have been together as husband and wife.

In the areas where I think differently from him, he values my unique individuality.

He has worked with me collaboratively to build our relationship and our family.

He has given me space to make decisions that he didn't agree with. And when some of those decisions turned out to have undesired consequences, he didn't beat me on the head to say I told you so. Instead, he encouraged me to take lessons from the experience and move on with life.

He has proven to be a trustworthy and reliable friend and partner. I trusted him to invest our funds and he did so wisely over the years and considers that all we have is for both of us and our children.

He's been open to learn from me in areas where I have more wisdom than him.

He has been and continues to be a great and fantastic husband.

I'm truly blessed to have him as my husband.

If you have a great husband, take time to appreciate him.

🎯 Dear men, Wife Appreciation Day comes up in September.

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ARE YOU STRUGGLING WITH A CRISIS IN YOUR MARRIAGE?

ARE YOU STRUGGLING WITH A CRISIS IN YOUR MARRIAGE?

You like many others desire a crisis-free relationship with your spouse.

I do too.

The reality is that incidents will occur in your relationship that bring challenges and uncertainty. And even tragedy.

Any day can being you unexpected crisis.

The unpredictable nature of a crisis that hits you and your relationship can be scary.

Today's affirmation statements will help you to increase the chances of your staying calm when an unexpected crisis develops in your life or relationship.

When crisis situations trigger a roller coaster of emotions in you, these affirmation statements remind you that you can find your way safely out of such situations.

⁉️ How do you react when a crisis occurs in your life or relationship?

⁉️ Do you know of anyone who reacts with courage during a crisis?What can you learn from them?

⁉️ If you're currently experiencing a crisis in your marriage and don't know what to do, sign up for an Exploratory Session with me. See bio for link to sign up.

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#GratitudeSunday Today I woke up with joy deep w

#GratitudeSunday

Today I woke up with joy deep within my heart 😁😁😁😁

Last night, we officially launched the celebration of the 5th Anniversary of the founding of The Right Fit Marriage Academy

Were you at the event? If you weren't you missed a lot!

No worries. Join our Facebook Community to see the replay of the event.

Five years ago, April 2016 I was nervous and wondering whether I should create the Academy. Especially when my advisers and coaches told me that I need to commit to becoming the public face of the Academy.

Public face ke?!!! 😲😲😲😲

I didn't want to be in the public for anything!!!

I just wanted to do things quietly and be my anonymous self.

However my desire to educate people about marriage prevailed and I tentatively stepped out into the public space.

I have come to appreciate why I needed to be in the public.

Marriage is a very private matter. Why should anyone listen to and take marriage advice and guidance from someone they don't know and cannot recognise?

And so I became a public persona.

My family tease me and say "I'm now a celeb!" 😂😂😂😂

We have achieved a great deal in the last five years of The Right Fit Marriage Academy. And we have reason to celebrate.

You are a significant contributor to all that we have achieved.

If you didn't join the community and participate actively, we couldn't have achieved anything.

Thank you for all that you have contributed.

Watch out for the posts from the Anniversary Planning Committee so you don't miss anything.

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What are you grateful for today?

73 YEARS OF MARRIAGE... Today Buckingham Palace a

73 YEARS OF MARRIAGE...

Today Buckingham Palace announced the death of Prince Phillip, husband to Queen Elizabeth II.

He was 99 years old and had been married to the Queen for 73 years.

Their marriage was lived in the public eye and with all the restrictions placed on them by their positions.

We will never know the details of their relationship in full.

I'm sure that like many husbands and wives they had their differences. They had difficult times. They probably had times when they were fed up with one another.

In spite of those, they understood one another, shared a common vision and cared enough to stick together for 73 years.

Wow!!!

I pray that God will comfort and uphold the Queen. Losing a companion you've shared life with for that long is not "beans".

I looked at the photographs from their early days together. I wonder, did they think that they be together for 73 years? I doubt it.

Like many of us, they lived one day, one week, one month, one year at a time and like play, 73 years went by.

If you know that your marriage will last all of 73 years, how will you relate with your spouse?

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IGNORE THIS TRUTH AT YOUR OWN PERIL Marriage is m

IGNORE THIS TRUTH AT YOUR OWN PERIL

Marriage is multifaceted institution.

Multifaceted means having many aspects or sides.

It makes different demands on you.

▪︎Physical
▪︎Emotional
▪︎Spiritual
▪︎Material
▪︎Mental
▪︎++++(fill in the gaps 😁😁😁😁)

The less aware you are of the many sides of marriage, the more likely it is that you will experience pain.

In many ways, marriage is like the human body.

A pain or ache in your body is simply a sign that you should pay attention to what is going on in some part of your body.

It is an invitation to examine your body and subject it to tests to diagnose what's happening in your body.

A fast action analgesic may take away the pain or ache for a while. If you don't address the cause, the pain will soon be back.

So it is with marriage. Your distress or unhappiness is simply a sign. You do need to look behind the sign for the cause.

Regrettably there is no fast action "marriage analgesic" for resolving "marriage aches and pains".

An incomplete or wrong diagnosis will only lead to more agony for you.

Be wise. Stop looking for quick fixes for your marriage issues. They don't exist.

What are your options?

1. Educate yourself about marriage.

2. Do marriage assessments to find out what the issues are that you need to focus on and address.

3. Should you require it, work with a professional counsellor. Each Naira you pay for that service is an investment in your wellbeing.

To get started, schedule an Exploratory Session, a 60-minute session with me. See bio for link to sign up.

Caveat: If you're experiencing abuse of any nature, GET HELP!!!

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STOP MEDITATING ON NEGATIVE MARRIAGE STORIES Have

STOP MEDITATING ON NEGATIVE MARRIAGE STORIES

Have you ever wondered what makes you feel and behave the way you do in your marriage?

Do you frequently give negative interpretations to issues that come up between you and your spouse?

Do you feel insecure and tend to blame yourself whenever something goes wrong in your marriage?

The insecurity you feel will not go away just because you ignore it.

Do a mental check. What type of marriage stories do you feed your mind with?

If you regularly and consistently feed your mind with negative marriage stories, you will begin to believe that there are problems in your own marriage.

Use affirmations to train you mind and create new patterns of thinking and beliefs about your marriage.

If what you currently believe about your marriage are very far from what you want to believe, this week's affirmation statements will help you close the gap

The statements provide you with a way to focus your mind on the destination you desire in your marriage.

Caveat: If you're experiencing abuse of any nature, these affirmation statements are not the palliative you need. SIGN FOR AN EXPLORATORY SESSION. See bio for link to sign up.

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🎯 Share it with your friends and your network.

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