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It's a dark night in Nigeria. Our government inst

It's a dark night in Nigeria.

Our government instructed our soldiers to shoot at our unarmed young ones who were telling them

▪︎ The truth they should know and uphold

▪︎To do the very things we elected them to do.

Every single one who acted out this script, your participation will become public knowledge.

The whole world will know that you were a part of this dastardly act.

The blood of these young ones will haunt you.

3 AFFIRMATIONS TO HOLD YOU UP THIS WEEK This morn

3 AFFIRMATIONS TO HOLD YOU UP THIS WEEK

This morning, my Chairman and I chatted about the ongoing #EndSARS protests.

He is one person that I can be naked and unashamed with.

We both were vulnerable in that chat. We held one another as we talked and received strength to face the day.

This week's affirmations remind you that marriage can give you a really orecious gift - a partner with who you go through life's storms together.

Sometimes in daily hustle, husbands and wives hurt themselves.

You disagree. You snap and say hurtful words. You withdraw and ignore one another because you hurt.

That happens because you're human. That doesn't mean that you don't want the marriage again.

Use these statements to remind yourself this week of what your marriage means to you. Even when you experience being human.

Share them with your friends.

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#EndSARS 19.10.2020 I woke up this morning with

#EndSARS

19.10.2020

I woke up this morning with renewed hope and determination.

Most of last week, I just wanted to truly understand the #EndSARS protest. My heart was with the protesters but I didn't just want to be parrotting what I saw on social media.

On Saturday, I invited my son to help me to understand all that was happen. He patiently spent some time with me to do that.

I found that there is a great deal I needed to educate myself about.

For a start, I looked up two websites.

Enough is Enough Nigeria - https://eie.ng/about-page/

Feminist Coalition - https://feministcoalition2020.com/who-we-are/

I learnt from these pages that the young people are accomplished people in their own rights who are silently pillars of our economy.

I understand better now that this protest is not just an emotional event. The call is to end police brutality. But that's because police brutality represents all that is terrible about our nation.

I also over the weekend read stories and experiences of people who had experienced police brutality. Were it not that those stories were shared by credible people, I wouldn't have believed them.

I understand better now that it is criminal to keep quiet and not engage with the ongoing protest.

I am still in the process of figuring out what I should do and how I should be involved. That's because I don't want just give cosmetic responses.

I urge you also to look behind the scenes, understand what is happening, locate your place in the ongoing protest.

God bless Nigeria.

4 WALLS TO PROTECT YOUR HEART Why did you choose

4 WALLS TO PROTECT YOUR HEART

Why did you choose your spouse? Of all the men and women in the world?

Why did you marry them?

I chose my Chairman because he had such a clear vision of where he was headed in life, I thought to myself, "If I team up with this man, I'll not get lost in life."

He chose me because I was bold and had a mind of my own. I challenged his views and perspectives.

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Doesn't sound romantic at all...abi?

When I'm really upset with him, I remind myself of why I married him. He does the same too.

These four affirmations are walls which keep my Chairman and I safe within our marriage.

They can do the same for you.

Save this post and look at it again and again this week.

Send it your friends. You're a good friend. You won't keep something like this to yourself.

Post it to your stories too.

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LESSONS FROM THE 8TH MARRIAGE ANNIVERSARY Your 8

LESSONS FROM THE 8TH MARRIAGE ANNIVERSARY

Your 8th wedding anniversary is called the Salt Anniversary in the UK and the Bronze Anniversary in the US.

Salt is seen as a need, something that you cannot do without. It has various uses - food preservative, fiid seasoning, disinfectant for infections, even in barter for trase of goods and services.

For the 8th wedding anniversary, salt represents the love, growth and companionship which at that stage of their relationship has become extremely important to the couple.

Bronze is a blending of copper (which represents luck) and tin (which represents durability). It signifies that your relationship is in luck and continues to be durable and stand strong.

Suggested 8th Wedding Anniversary gifts:

▪︎ Luxury salt and pepper shakers

▪︎Bronze cookware, mugs, dishes, bowls

▪︎Bronze candle holders

▪︎Bronze jewellery

SHHHHHH...ONE THING YOU REALLY NEED TO KNOW ABOUT

SHHHHHH...ONE THING YOU REALLY NEED TO KNOW ABOUT MARRIAGE

Did your wife hurt you yesterday?

You left the office with a firm resolve to show her that you really are a good husband.

BUT within minutes of you arriving your home, that resolve was crushed.

Hmmmmmmmm...that happens more often than we admit.

Don’t lose sight of the forest for the trees.

What does that mean?

A forest is full of many trees. However, if you focus on looking at the individual trees, you may forget that each tree is merely one of thousands in the forest and thus lose sight of the big picture.

In your relationship with your wife, do you have a Strategic Vision?

Close your eyes. Imagine you and your wife in 20 years? 40 years? 50 years?

What type of relationship do you want to have with her? Do you know that with clarity?

Do you have a Strategic Plan for making that vision a reality?

Without a Strategic Vision and Plan in place for your marriage, you'll become too focused on the little details of what happens between you and your wife and lose sight of the big picture of what you both could build.

Are you thinking, "How do I do that - get a Strategic Vision and Plan for me relationship with my wife?"

Send me a DM. Ask me questions there.

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